Yes, Virginia , There is no Santa Claus
“Adults know that there is no Santa Claus. If they tell you otherwise, they are lying to you. That’s okay: some parents tell their children that Santa Claus is real as a sort of game, and there’s no evidence that this does any real harm. But if anyone keeps lying to you — about Santa Claus, or anything else — when you ask them a direct question and explicitly ask them to tell you the truth? That’s a problem. And if anyone tries to make you feel ashamed, or inferior, or like your life will be dreary and intolerable, simply because you don’t believe in this lie they’re telling you… you should be extremely suspicious. They are trying to manipulate you. It is not okay.”
(from “Yes, Virginia, There is No Santa Claus,” Greta Christina’s blog)
I think this essay should be required reason for the holiday season – anyone’s holiday season. You can read the entire essay, which is a satirical commentary on the original “Yes, Virginia, There Is A Santa Claus,” on the mahvelous Greta Christina’s blog.
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Thank You For Not Axing
Dateline: Wednesday, out for my a.m. walk, listening to a podcast of author Steven Pinker being interviewed about his latest book, The Sense of Style: A Thinking Person’s Guide to Writing in the 21st Century. The interview touched on several interesting issues (well, interesting, if you’re a linguistics/usage groupie), including how dictionaries reflect (the always-evolving) common usage, the differences between elucidative prose and speech, and all that grammatical gobbledygook.
Which reminded me about my own usage peeve.
Calling persons of all genders, nationalities, ethnicities, political and artistic preferences – can we agree on this fact:
There is no “x” in the English language word, “ask.”
Therefore, don’t be surprised if and when you say, “I want to axe you something,” I run away screaming.
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Department of Somebody Please Tell Them (preferably, in their native language)
MH took me for a foot reflexology massage on my birthday….
…followed by a sushi lunch. The sushi restaurant had a sign up on their electronic menu board reminding patrons to check out their 37 new menu items. One of the new items has a name which, I presume, was chosen in honor of someone, by someone else who is unfamiliar with American slang. Golly gee, no, thank you, but I’d rather not try your Johnson Roll.
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Department of Random Reflections
If I’m standing by a door that has one of those status sign indicators underneath the lock, it’s because I’m waiting to use the facilities. Thus, it’s a good thing when the status changes from “Occupied.” Still, a part of me feels I’m in danger of dropping 10 IQ points by entering a room that says “vacant.”
Department of If I Had the Power To Do So…
I’d like to change, or make an addition to, those door lock status indicators. Occupied; Vacant – there needs to be a third option.
There needs to be an option to alert people that it might be some time before the room is available, as the occupant is not merely taking a leak but is trying to collect her thoughts, and this room is the only place she may find some peace and quiet away from co-workers/family-friends: PreOccupied.
Also, I’d like the following occupancy indicator sign implanted in my forehead. For those special moments, where my cognitive activity may not be apparent to others:
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Random Scenes from the Past 
Dateline: A long, long time ago  in a galaxy far, far, away.  I was standing in a checkout line at a Safeway, holding my basket of ten-items-or-less.  The line moved slowly, and after performing my customary assessment of the basket items of the people in line ahead of me,  I looked around for something else to scrutinize, and beheld a rack of cut flowers by the counter. What held my attention was that I could actually smell the flowers from several feet away; they were not the usual, cheap/five-minutes-before-wilt-mode bouquets to tempt harried dinner guests/dates into a last minute guilt-grab.
An arrangement of humble but incredibly fragrant carnations attracted my attention, and after checking the price  I added it to my basket.
“What a pretty bouquet!” the cashier cooed, as she rang up my items. “For someone special?
“Ah…” I chuckled. “Well, yes. They’re for me.”
“For you? You’re treating yourself to flowers?”
“Oh, what a nice idea!” The Cashier leaned toward me and, with a gal-to-gal conspiratorial sigh, added, “But it’s just not the same, is it, when you have to buy them for yourself?”
By the time I got back to my apartment, the flowers were not as fragrant as they’d seemed in the store. I gave the bouquet to my next door neighbor, who’d picked up my mail for me when I was on a business trip.
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Pre-Christmas/post-birthday blues: It’s that time of the year: here come the the lists. You can’t spit without hitting someone’s inventory of the Best/Top 100/15/20 People/Neologisms/Inventions of the year.
♫ And so this is Christmas/and what have you done? ♫
And what have I done? Not enough, apparently – I’m not doing enough, okay, John? Could you please chill out with the guilting, and shut up Yoko, while you’re at it?
Then, of course, I find myself thinking, I am sniping at my radio; I’m yelling at a dead man, through my car radio. How pathetic is that?
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About those lists. If you can’t beat ‘em…
I’ve got one, that has nothing to do with 2014 or the year’s end, but that was prompted by hearing a song on the radio – in this case. R.E.M’s Losing My Religion. After which I said to moiself, That’s one of the best songs ever written about alienation...which led me to ponder other best-songs-written-about categories.
Song title (Performer)
-Best song about paranoia: Get In Line (Bare Naked Ladies)
-Best song about heading-for-a-breakup defiance: You’re Breaking My Heart (Harry Nilsson)
-Best song about why you shouldn’t get drunk and look through your high school and/or college yearbooks: Need You Now (Lady Antebellum)
-Best song you’re embarrassed to admit you like, but dang if it don’t have a catchiest, earwormiest tune: M-m-m-Bop (Hansen)
-Best song with incredible Emmy Lou Harris harmonizing about a woman’s love for her incarcerated son: The Sweetest Gift (Linda Ronstadt)
-Best song that lives up to its title: Roland the Headless Thompson Gunner (Warren Zevon)
-Best song about Patti Smith falling in love: Frederick (Patti Smith)
-Best song about knowing the right thing to do but putting it off until later: “Come Tomorrow” (Patti Scialfa)
-Best Beach Boys tribute/parody song: Back in the USSR (The Beatles)
-Best song about Portland hipsters: Bohemian Like You (The Dandy Warhols)
-Best song by Portland hipsters who’ve unfortunately heard the term “literary” applied to their music by a few slavering critics and thus take themselves way too seriously: Down By the Water (The Decemberists)
-Best song to snap your fingers and sing along and pretend you’re a hipster: Danny’s All-Star Joint (Rickie Lee Jones)
-Best Bob Dylan song neither written nor sung by Bob Dylan: You’ve Got To Hide Your Love Away (The Beatles) 
-Best song to explain the visceral appeal of punk: I Wanna Be Sedated (The Ramones)
-Best song about what you wish you’d said to the drunken jerks who hit on you at the concert/club even after you’d made it clear you were not seeking male companionship but just wanted to have a good time with your girlfriends: U + Ur Hand (Pink)
-Best song that illustrates why radio censorship was a good thing, because composers had to write clever, read-between-the-lines lyrics and it was so much fun to “get it” when your parent’s didn’t: Lola (The Kinks)
-Best song to get the boys (drunk or sober) to sing the chorus: 8 Miles Wide (Storm Large)
-Best song about sexual infatuation from one woman’s POV: Why Can’t I (Liz Phair)
-Best song about cows with guns: Cows With Guns (Dana Lyons)
-Best song about not regretting taking a stand: Not Ready to Make Nice (Dixie Chicks)
-Best song about honky hip hop ineptitude: Help, I’m White and I Can’t Get Down (The Geezinslaws)
-Best song that would be my anthem if I were a pre-operative trannie: Stand By Your Man (Lyle Lovett)
-Best not-your-parents’ Christmas song: Christmas in Hollis (Run DMC)
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May all your favorite songs make someone’s best-of list, and may the ho-ho-ho hijinks ensue.
Thanks for stopping by. Au Vendredi!
 Not as random as some, this recollection was prompted by my receiving a lovely birthday bouquet from friend LAH.
 In the 1980’s.
 The Bay Area. Specifically/probably, Palo Alto or Menlo Park.
 Which should be “or fewer” not less, I know.
 Dude, with that beer gut, do you really need three bags of pork rinds?
 I was living hand to mouth or hand to foot or foot and mouth disease – or whatever in those days – and flowers or any kind of “luxury” item was not in the budget.
 Not the official name, which is Happy Xmas/War is Over.