I am, really and truly, trying to keep shiny happy thoughts in my head about our neighborhood’s avian inhabitants. But they start singing outside my bedroom window at 4:10 in the morning, and WTF’s with that, tweetie pie?
These Kids Today
Dateline, July 3: The University of Puget Sound sent its Class of 2018 students a list of dorm supplies the students need to bring with them. Belle asks me if I would go with her tomorrow to shop for items on the list.
Moiself: “Sure. But remember, tomorrow is July 4th. Have you checked to see if the stores you want to visit are open?”
“Why wouldn’t they be?” Belle looks confused. “It’s not as if it’s a national holiday or anything.”
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Total Surprise of the Week
aka, Mum’s the Word
I’m sure you were as shocked – shocked! – as I was to learn that another conservative politician  who champions Abstinence-Only “education programs,” and also opposes the ACA’s contraceptive mandate, now has to do the I-supporter-my-daughter-who-will-be-facing-many-challenges tap dance; i.e., the announcement of his 17 year-old (unmarried) daughter’s unplanned pregnancy.
When I worked at Planned Parenthood, some of us snarky experienced clinic worker bees had a term for the Abstinence Only gals. We called them MUMs  in the making.
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It’s Still Working
The sound of footsteps at the front door is accompanied by the sound of muffled voices in consultation, followed by the sound of…nothing. Yet another knock and/or ring of the doorbell was averted. I can only guess that they, who/whatever they are, saw The Sign. And they took The Sign as a sign, and did the right thing. 
I work out of a home office, and have come to loathe the interruptions from door-to-door salesfolk, proselytizers and petitioners. Even so, I never wanted to post one of those NO SOLICITING signs by the front doorbell. This is FAVOR,  including
* such signs seem hostile, or at least unsociable, and I want my neighbors to feel welcome to stop by;
* several friends and neighbors who have posted No Solicitors notices told me that their signs are often unheeded; 
* in My Ideal World ® , such signs should be unnecessary. Why should I deface my house because some presumptuous blowholes think my family needs their opinions as to which imaginary friend we should worship and/or which political issue we should support?
MH and I vowed that we would not harass our neighbors when it came to underwriting K’s  and Belle’s school and extracurricular activities. I can count on the fingers of one finger the times we allowed either of them to participate in those dreadful fundraising drives. Suffice to say, we were not the most popular family amongst the school fundraising organizers. I discretely but firmly explained to a series of teachers, administrators and PTA Nazis (make that presidents) that while we while we supported ___ activity (if, indeed, we did support it) and would contribute the expected per child amount for our own child to participate, we would not send our children door to door, imploring our neighbors to purchase toxic-to-pets-and-infants, Go Team USA! made-in-China plastic water bottles and unrecyclable gift wrapping paper to finance the school’s lacrosse team mouth guard fund.
Many other families apparently held no such sentiments. Thus, over the years there were a series of disappointed kiddie solicitors leaving our porch. We were kind to the children, even as we were irritated to be put in the position of honing our gracious, “Oh, sorry, no thanks” response on wide-eyed eight-year olds. 
I wanted to get the point across, firmly and directly, but with humor. My first solution, several years ago, was in the form of a topical Non Sequitur comic strip. I was so pleased when I saw it (this is perfect!) I contacted the strip’s syndicating organization and paid the fee to receive a copy of the panel, which I laminated and posted under the doorbell.
The panel has long since been destroyed by the elements. I can’t find a copy of it online (how can this be?!?!?!?), so a description will have to suffice. It was a single panel comic: a couple of solicitors pause on the sidewalk, outside of a house which has a sign on its front yard gate. The sign, which read something like, “Welcome, we love solicitors! Please, do tell us why your religion is better than ours!” is posted above an iconic coroner’s chalk-mark on the sidewalk that outlines where a body has lain.
After we posted the comic strip sign we let certain families in the neighborhood know of our policy (and the rest, I think, caught on). For families we actually knew/liked/recognized,  their children were welcome to pitch us their fundraisers, and we would support the activities if such activities were in line with our interests and values (e.g. nothing in which plastic swag was involved, nothing promoting religion or divisive politics, nothing where money would be funneled through non-legit “charities,” and nothing just plain lame-ass stupid).
As mentioned previously, I work at home, and used to get a lot of visits from the door-to-door crowd. The comic panel sign worked…but only for about 50% of solicitors. The rest would smile broadly as I opened the door, and would immediately point out that sign and say, “That’s great!” or “That’s really funny/cute!”
To which I would respond, “And you think it doesn’t apply to you, do you?”
Most people would sheepishly and graciously retreat at that point. However, some did not, and would attempt to get in their spiel about how they were not actually selling anything – oh no! – they were giving away good news, for free! I was surprised by the sheer lack of self-awareness and brass balls persistence of those who believe they have something their gods/political gurus/10,000 Friends of Oregon want them to share to people who have specifically and repeatedly said, no way/go away.
Welcome, friends and neighbors!
All others: No doorspam, please.
Translation: No soliciting.
Nope, none at all, be it
political, religious, or otherwise.
(Yes, this means you)
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The Future Is In Their Hands
This week Belle and five of her high school friends (two boys, three girls)  went on their first no-adults overnight trip.  They drove up the Columbia Gorge, stopping at Multnomah Falls and Hood River before crossing the Columbia to head for their final destination, a cabin in the mountains belonging to one of the girl’s parents.
Belle was quite conscientious about providing MH and I with Required Parental Details ® , including the names of the cabin owners,  the location and phone number of the cabin, the names of the other attendees, their departure and return plans and time frame, and the description of the vehicle they’ll be riding in. Belle didn’t know the vehicle’s license plate, so when her friends arrived Tuesday morning to pick her up, I went outside to say hello/goodbye/have fun, and wrote down the license number.
Contemporary, non-vanity Oregon driver’s licenses consist of three numbers and three letters. “You’ve got an easy one to remember,” I said to the driver and another passenger, who stood outside the vehicle while Sadie squeezed her duffel bag between back seat passengers. I pointed to the minivan’s license plate. “DDE – those are a president’s initials.”
The two girls looked at me blankly, their eyes only lighting up in comprehension when I followed up with, “Eisenhower – Dwight David Eisenhower. You know, the WWII general; the one with the ‘I like Ike’ campaign slogan?”
“That poor man,” Passenger Girl laughed. “His parents probably named him Dwight David ’cause they thought, ‘Who could ever make an embarrassing nickname out of that?’, and he ends up being called, ‘Ike.’ ”
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May your nicknames be campaign-worthy and your proselytizers be mock-worthy, and may the hijinks ensue.
Thanks for stopping by. Au Vendredi!
 This time it’s Bill Cassidy, state congressman, Louisiana.
 More Unmarried Mothers.
 i.e., they left skidmarks as they fled our porch.
 For A Variety of Reasons.
 The proselytizers say, “Oops, I didn’t see it until I’d already rung the bell….”
 Our kids turned out to be like-minded, imagine that. One of the first intentional profanities I heard son K utter had to do with his declaration that he wasn’t going to do any of that “@#!& fundraising #$!?^.”
 And had we said yes to a mere fraction of the solicitation the financial outlay would have been substantial.
 It’s amazing, how many of the kiddie funraisers were not from our neighborhood, but trucked in from miles away. Yep, I asked if I did not recognize the kids, and yep, they told.
 Except in the case of about 4-5 people who have said, as I opened the door, that they were going to leave when they saw the sign but really wanted to tell me how much “I really love the term ‘doorspam,’ ’cause you know exactly what that means, and I’m leaving now, I promise….”
 Revealing the mixed gender makeup of the group prompted a totally unsolicited reassurance, from Belle to her bemused parental units, that there was no kind of romantic interest amongst any of the parties.
 They’re all eighteen, so legally adults, but…really. How many adults take Disney animated movies with them to sleepovers?
 Who will not be there, as it’s a kids young adults-only vacation.